An open letter to Millennials and voters considering voting Third Party

Dear Millennials and Citizens Considering Voting Third Party,

I do understand and respect your idealism and hopeful (for some, desperate) desire for change. Washington is, in many ways, a broken embarrassment of a federal government. It is hyper-partisan and beholden to money and special interests. It enacted and now selfishly profits from gerrymandering, a grotesque distortion of areas that privileges some (most egregiously the elected official) against many and extreme ideology versus willingness to compromise. 

It is youthful idealism and a sincere desire for things better that often propels a society forward. We must never inhibit hope. I remember being so deeply hopeful myself: the right and just ways forward often seem so clear, and bureaucracy and glacial progress so stupid and frustrating. 

And yet.

And yet, idealism is just the start. A beautiful start that nonetheless needs tempering by loss and reality. I mean no condescension in that. It's just that as a mother now, for example, I understand my own mother so differently. Understand her fatigue and limits and worries and upset in a new way. And while I mother differently because of that, I also mother the same because of that. Because of the wisdom and simple truths in what needs to happen versus what I sometimes wish would.

I understand your desire to make a statement by voting third party. I do. I was a huge Ross Perot fan way back when. I even put his campaign sticker on my beloved hair dryer, melting it onto the plastic orange shaft forever more. 

But I beseech you to see that because we don't have a multiparty political system, as votes for Ralph Nader proved in the Bush-Gore election, that pivotal election when you were just babes, third party votes are wasted ones. I repeat: without a Third Party system, votes for Third Party candidates are, ultimately, always a vote for someone else: the less-popular candidate who would otherwise come in second. That tips the math against the more popular candidate. On November 9, a vote for Johnson or Stein is, overall but especially in swing states, a vote for Trump. Please know that. Please believe that. And please see below for what Johnson and Stein believe in.

I wish so much about our politics were different. I would love to see a multiparty system as well as the abolition of the electoral college, gerrymandering, years-long campaigning, and Citizens United. But I know that those changes won't happen overnight or in a country in which only one of two candidates will, as things are structured now, win. Currently, a protest vote isn't a a vote for the greater, idealized good; it's a wasted act of defiance that, sadly, doesn't carry weight in the way you hope it will or wish it would.

If you love this country and worry about jobs and the economy and racism and our status in the world, if you care about the next judges seated on the Supreme Court and someone who will deal with the horrid socioeconomic inequality and systemic bigotry in our criminal justice system, if you want someone who appreciates science and honors fact, who will work proactively to tend to our Earth, I urge you to vote against a Trump presidency. The only way to do that is to vote for Clinton.

As you may have seen in the first debate, Trump is not informed, he is not kind, he is not curious. He is petulant and rude and self-absorbed. I can't imagine how anyone can do anything but help ensure he is not elected. Otherwise, you're part of the problem, now and with regard to the repercussions that will follow.

Respectfully,
A 40-year-old from Louisiana now living in Maryland
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Gary Johnson:
- supports TPP.
- supports fracking.
- supports Citizens United.
- opposes net neutrality.
- wants to increase the Social Security retirement age to 75 and is open to privatization.
- opposes any kind of national health care and wants to repeal Obamacare.
- opposes any kind of paid maternity or medical leave.
- supported the Keystone XL pipeline.
- opposes any government action to address climate change.
- wants to cut the corporate tax rate to zero.
- seems to think that we should reduce financial regulation. All we need to do is allow big banks to fail and everything will be OK.
- wants to remove the Fed's mandate to maximize employment and has spoken favorably of returning to the gold standard.
- wants to repeal the 16th Amendment and eliminate the income tax, the payroll tax, and the estate tax. He would replace it with a 28 percent FairTax that exempts the poor. This is equivalent to a 39 percent sales tax, and it would almost certainly represent a large tax cut for the rich.
- could not name a single foreign leader when asked. He finally said, "the former Mexican president."

Jill Stein:
- is wholly pro-environment and clean energy and wants to transition to 100% clean renewable energy by 2030. She is against fracking.
- wants to set a mandatory $15/hour federal minimum wage, break up “too-big-to-fail” banks and democratize the Federal Reserve. She wants to provide free universal childcare.
- wants to establish an improved “Medicare For All” single-payer public health insurance program to provide everyone with quality health care. She wants to llow full access to contraceptive and reproductive care and expand women's access to "morning after" contraception by lifting the Obama Administration's ban.
- wants to replace NAFTA and other corporate free trade agreements that export American jobs, depress wages, and undermine the sovereign right of Americans and citizens of other countries to control their own economy and political choices. She is pro-union.
- wants to repeal the Taft-Hartley Act which banned secondary boycotts and permitted state "right-to-work" laws. 
- wants to guarantee tuition-free, world-class public education from pre-school through university, and abolish student debt to free a generation of Americans from debt servitude.
- wants to end the war on drugs, legalize marijuana/hemp, release nonviolent drug offenders from prison, end police brutality, mass incarceration and institutional racism, and demilitarize police.
- wants to repeal the Patriot Act, abolish the death penalty, and ban drone use for purposes of killing.
- wants to abolish the Electoral College, reinstate section 4 of the Voting Rights Act, and enact statehood for D.C.

The aftermath and Halloween

Ohmahgah, y'all, I have been tired since before my alarm went off this morning. Late night with that debate. I simply must share my favorite tweet of the evening:

I'm still in hysterics!

Ok, it is taking everything I have to keep Oliver from decorating for Halloween. He cares not that October is still four days away, nor that Halloween is still another four weeks later, nor even that I'm co-hosting a bridal shower here this Saturday. However, I have put my foot down: he can start decorating on Sunday.

Each year he has mourned that our decorations are not spooky enough and so each year, we have added to the collection. Our annual schlep to Party City occurred last Saturday, and we came away with not only a Storm Trooper costume but also a 5-foot posable skeleton and a very large outdoor spider web made of black rope. These items seem to have sated Ol's manic appetite for haunting grimness.

At least for now.

He and skeleton invited me to their feast of fried spiders. Charming, isn't it?!

I'm off to bed y'all. Zzzzz.....

POTUS Debate #1 via Em on Facebook

Wine in hand, here we go. In T minus 13. I swear to G, Lester, you better NOT Matt Lauer yourself. #debate1 

Melania v Bill. Amazing likenesses. Said no one ever. #HnotT

I'm already pissed. The media is biased against Orange Man?Not. #seeMattLauer #HnotT 

And where are those personal tax returns? 

https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-directed-23-million-owed-to-him-to-his-charity-instead/2016/09/26/7a9e9fac-8352-11e6-ac72-a29979381495_story.html

Is she dying to Purell like a banshee and erase the memory of his tiny hands from hers?? #HnotT #debatenight

If HRC was making the sneery glazed face DJT was making now, she'd be lambasted for RBF and other awfulness. #HnotT #shittydoublestandards#debatenight

Does HE HAVE A COLD?!?!?!? Hurry, get a coffin. His time is near. Clearly, he's hiding critical medical records. #HnotT #debatenight

Sniff, jobs, sniff, "why now after 30 years? I will bring back jobs. You can't."
Puh-lease. "I don't pay people, I buy my ties from China, and I don't understand trade." #HnotT #debatenight

IS ANYONE GOING TO CALL TRUMP OUT ON OBNOXIOUS INTERRUPTING???? #sorude #whereareyoulester #debatenight

This man is a g-damn imbecile. "You're going to regulate these businesses out of existence." And yet he cannot explain that, cannot give evidence, cannot do anything but combust and bloviate. #HnotT #debatenight

"You've been fighting ISIS your entire adult life." WHAT in the Sam Hill is he talking about???? I am not sure he's going to make it through the next ten minutes. "Secretary Clinton won't allow them to bring the money back." BUT HE OFFSHORES EVERYTHING! #HnotT #debatenight

"See, I'm just in a bit of a standard audit. Just wait. You'll see all about Donald Trump. Just wait." #HnotT #STFU #debatenight

"I will release them as soon as the audit...I've been audited for the past 15 years." Um, an audit does not preclude sharing tax returns AND audited 15 years in a row says something. #HnotT #criminal #debatenight

"Not paying taxes makes me smart." Really? It makes you a criminal, or at best a cheater of this country. #HnotT #debatenight

"Maybe he didn't do a good job, so didn't deserve to be paid." Are we really hearing these things? You guys, WHO is voting for him? Really, what is wrong here? #debatenight #HnotT

"We have gangs roaming the streets. We are in hell. 4,000 deaths in Chicago since President Obama took office. It's his hometown. You need stop and frisk." What if you stopped and frisked everyone in TX? I'm just saying. And are you trying to link this shit to Obama? And who are "these people"? #HnotT#opencarryisridiculous #debatenight

Yes, thank you, Secty Clinton, we DO NEED to address systemic racism in the criminal justice system and we DO NEED to stop for-profit prisons. #HnotT#debatenight

So, PS, the Trump campaign is furiously deleting all his old tweets. Interesting.#HnotT

I was the one who got him to produce the birth certificate, and I think I did a good job. 'Sniff.'" This man is offensive, gross, ignorant, and....sick. #colds#HnotT #debatenight

"Hi, Orangey, I love you!" #tinythings #HnotT #debatenight

ISIS "is beating us at our own game. I have a son, he's 10 years old. We created the internet. The security aspect of cyber is UGE, hardly doable." Y'all, that is not a sensical, not-on-coke series of thoughts. #HnotT#debatenight

"Yes, Sean and I have always had deep, intellectual and philosophical debates about how awful the Iraq war was. I always voted against it."

"Also, i have a much better temperament than she does, AND I know how to win."

What.the.FUCK. !?!?! #HnotT #debatenight

Wait, seriously. Did he just say nuclear disarmament was the main priority? Didn't he just say ISIS was the big deal? And now, "we lose on everything. We can't defend Japan." Me no understand this new language of one. #HnotT#debatenight #heisSTOOPID

"China should solve the problem for us" but didn't he just say that "China is using us like an ATM"? Erm...I have more than short-term memory. #HnotT#debatenight

And now he desperately segues back to ISIS and...JAPAN???????

You guys, STFU, I happen to love Japan and I almost moved there, but generally speaking, Japan is not #2 in conversation in politics these days. Just sayin. #HnotT #debatenight

DJT, do you understand what it means to be RECORDED? As in, ON TAPE?? We know what you've said. We've watched it and wretched over it. You are a disgrace. #HnotT #debatenight

He is a pitiful, sad, insecure, orange, shriveled, mean, bully, and he lost tonight. He LOST UGE! #HnotT #imwithher #Hillary #debatenight

"Somewhere between incoherence and babble." -Republican strategist Steve Schmidt re: Donald Trump. #HnotT #enoughsaid