Feast was fantastic

Wow, did we have a marvelous time last night. Firstly, it is wonderful to see four kids having so much fun together; they truly love playing and were teary upon saying goodbye. Watching children care not about age in the least, simply enjoying all manner of pretend play, games and so forth is wonderful. It is also such a treat to get to have quality adult time in the midst of an active playdate, a rarity for sure. 8 people, 4 age 6 and under, is not always a recipe for calm, but last night it was relatively so, and we all had a special time. And then there was the food. Spiced, fried potato rounds (pakora) with mint and tamarind sauces, kebabs, rice, okra (bindi), spinach, chickpeas, chicken, potatoes, bread and Pakistani ice cream. Ooh, I ate my body weight in veggies, the kids tried most everything, T adored the kebab and ice cream (which was scented with cardamom)...I will definitely be making the okra and spinach dishes as soon as I'm lucky enough to get the recipes. Look at this spread:

Love Letter Jam

It always seems sad to throw out the Valentines roses Tom gives me, even if they're heading to the compost to eventually help make something else grow and bloom. While reading through Claudia Roden's book on middle eastern food recently, I paged past a recipe for rose petal jam. Today -- probably in some sort of sleep-deprived + dissociative stupor (90% of sitters have cancelled this week in addition to J still being sick and having adopted an incredibly irritating chapped nose-related wail) -- the idea of a rose jam came back to me in a memory swirl that whipped me back to Mont St. Michel, a stunningly gorgeous island community and Abbey off the Norman coast in France. T and I stayed for a few days in a lovely B&B there the summer after we married; we were living in Amsterdam, so travel throughout Europe was sinfully easy and cheap. Bliss. Anyway, at our first breakfast at the inn, the proprietress presented us with the most spectacular array of homemade jams, preserves and breads. The jellies ranged from the most common to those infinitely less familiar to us then, strawberry to Earl Grey, apricot to lavender, and so on. The rose hip jelly stood out immediately to both of us, its flavor equally matched, and impressively so, by its fragrance and color. The color and texture reminded me of the Mayhaw jelly I grew up eating, a fruit tree I've never seen outside of Louisiana, though I once befriended a Arkansan farmer via phone so as to procure some Mayhaw juice (you need it for my Nanny's cranberry sauce if you're being ultra-authentic). Don't ask me how I found this guy's number, some localharvest'y type of website, but he was great, we became fast-friends, he shipped me what Mayhaw juice he had left, I sent him my recipe, and we never spoke again. Delightful, yes? That was a hell of a special batch of cranberry sauce.

But back to Normandy, T and I just felt so fancy and indulgent with all these beautiful jams spread before us. We gorged ourselves happily, and I've never forgotten that morning. In thinking about that jam today, I looked back at the Valentines roses I was about to take out to the compost, and I reconsidered. I was wondering what the heck to do with the box of fresh red currants I bought a few days ago anyway, and how lovely it sounded to make a rose-currant jam, enlivened with the gorgeous floral citrusy'ness of Meyer lemon juice.

Right now, the petals (now cooked and drained) are macerating in the rose syrup I made by boiling said petals, water and lemon, straining and reboiling some of the resultant rosewater with sugar and more lemon. It's all quite beautiful, and I have high hopes it might provide us a little vicarious R&R, or at least a happy memory at breakfast sometime soon.

Love my new little pot, local recycling center, leftover ful

Isn't this little guy a cutie? And PS, great service Wms-Sonoma in Langhorne, PA. Hells bells, didn't I just order this? And here it is! J stayed home from school again today, and so during a medicinally-induced upswing, I took the boys to the Montgomery County Recycling Center. J had gone on a field trip there recently and thought it was "awesome;" I was sure O would feel the same, and seeing as how I could not stay in our house for another day, I packed us up and hauled us out. Peeps, if you live near Montgomery County, you, too, with kids or not, should go so this place. It is super cool, full of great tips, clean, the people are friendly, you can recycle everything there, and there are tons of big, neat machines. O was in hog's heaven being that he is Bob the Builder. It was great. Then we attempted lunch, but that was asking too much of us all, so we came home mid-meal and called it a morning.

I am sad for J that he's had such a bad cold- no sleeping, recurrent fever, muscle aches...But I have to say that he has finally been forced to learn how to blow his nose effectively, and this is a great gift to me. The constant snort-like inhalations make me nuts, and you just know his sinus cavities are considering starting up an infection. So, yay for blowing.

I am so tired today that I really have no interest in or energy to cook. I will, however, tell you that the ful is absolutely divine and that you should try making some pronto. I'll post Claudia's recipe. I will also share the pita recipe once I clear it with The Solitary Cook. In the meantime, if you want to make them, check out her blog (it's down there in my blogroll) and once there, search pita.