Women writers, bizcochitos

As you might recall, I took a food writing class last April. It was conducted online and via conference call as we students lived all across the US. Four of us really clicked and subsequently formed a writing group. We still submit work to each other on a regular basis and phone in for "class" twice a month. These women, one each in NM, MA and LA, are truly exceptional people; no doubt kismet brought us together. And I am grateful for it and for them! We write about many different aspects of food and in many different ways. Lili runs Delightful Palate, a business, website and blog based on her delightful artisanal condiments. Lili has a voice, wit and spunk that I adore. Catherine recently started an honest, soul-searching blog, Eating Art Work, and is a wonderful artist. She interweaves her writing and drawings and runs an  Etsy store. Her kitchen towels are fabulous- I love the cantaloupe and grapefruit especially! Laura is an ace gardener, an incredibly adept researcher (seriously, you should see what she comes up with regarding the history and evolution of the food in question), has a sly humor and a real way with words. I am terrifically fond of these women, happy to call them friends, and hopeful I'll meet them in person at some point. For now I have their unique voices, the many works they've shared and a sense of connection that's significant.

We each recently received from Laura a beautiful box of carefully packed, heart-shaped bizcochitos (or biscochitos). In pure Laura form, these cookies not only represent the traditional New Mexican Christmas cookie but also arrived with a letter including the history of their origin, the ways in which they've changed over time and variations in shape and ingredients. She noted that purists believe lard trumps butter in these treats, a stance with which she agrees, but for good measure she made some of each. And, she rendered her OWN LARD from a heritage hog she and her husband bought a half of. I love and admire every single bit of this story.

These bite-sized cookies are addicting, and I've had to put them out of reach of the boys to ensure some stash remains for me. They're cinnamon-sugary and anisey, and just all-around delicious. I asked L for the recipe, and she sent it along with all of her notes. So my kinda gal!

I'm gonna go eat one (or maybe four) now, and as I pop it into my mouth, savoring the rich, flaky, perfectly spiced crumb, I'll send a toast to Laura, Lili and Catherine, women who add much to my life! Cheers, WWW!

Those kids...

Oliver and I were walking down a busy street today, and just before us, an old Porsche 911 pulled into a parking garage. Ol said, with complete seriousness, "that car looks like it's from the 1970s." I about fell out. When I stopped guffawing with love and appreciation, I asked him what he meant. He said, "well, it looks old-fashioned." Now y'all, this is all true but how did he know about old-fashioned Porsche aesthetics and equate that with the '70s? He then went ballistic because I refused to buy him a $10 candy cane-shaped cookie cutter, but I'm going to end my day thinking about the funny rather than the ridiculous. Meanwhile, Jack is working so hard on a new morning strategy, and I am dying with pride and love. If he can do X each day this week, I'm treating him to a new pack of baseball cards on Friday after school. After a third successful morning today, it took all I had to not go buy him the cards early. And then he thanked me for helping him conceive of this new "system." I could die.

I haven't told you this yet but I learned, again, on Monday never to rush making a cake. That lemon cake was like a yellow brick. Oliver professed to love it so I let him have 80% before tossing it out. Then tonight I made an exceedingly average pasta for dinner and now am happier with my austere cup of tea.

You win some, you lose some.

Good dinner, early bedtime, hilarious story

By the time I tucked the kids in bed and T got home last night, I was 90% catatonic. Nevertheless, I knew that take-out would bring me down more so I whipped up a quick and hearty dinner that was both beautiful and good: pan-seared steaks; caramelized fennel, leek and orange salad; and gratineed cipollini onions. We enjoyed some red wine, watched Homeland, and then T prescribed basement-sleeping for moi. I did not argue. Our meal really did make me feel better though; it is never the wrong thing to do to take care of yourself in the most basic of ways. Doing so can seem impossible at times -you try catching up on sleep when your child is sick, for ex- and so taking advantage of the times you can tend to you becomes even more critical and wise.

This salad is really divine. It just feels good: the bright flavors enliven you from inside out, the fruits and veggies help you easily and deliciously consume at least two of their suggested daily servings, and it pairs well with pretty much everything from steaks and fish to risotto or a cheese plate. Foodie friend C has been making this lately and agrees that it's marvelous. Try it soon!

And if you can bear to peel cipollinis, those darling flattened-orb alliums that you can find fresh in the market right now, do cook with them. They are sweet and mild onions that can be prepared in so many ways: confited; browned and added to a beef stew; fried (with Meyer lemon rings, please!); pickled (bet this is great)... Last night I asked dear hubs to peel them (poor guy didn't know what he agreed to), and then I placed them in a Pyrex bowl, whisked together some cream and crème fraîche, poured that over the onions, sprinkled things generously with kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper and then grated some fresh breadcrumbs on top. I covered the dish with foil, cooked for 15 minutes or so at 385 and then upped the oven to a hi broil to finish them off. Spectacular. Comfort food at its best! ~~~~ T scored even more points by keeping the boys and cat (this is truly a feat as he usually throws himself against the guest room door, caterwauling like a lovestruck loon until I give in and let him in!) from waking me up this morning. I rolled out of bed at 7:45, just in time to help them pack their veggies (each Wednesday the children at school bring a veggie; then a giant soup is made for a local shelter), kiss them goodbye and shut the door.

I made a coffee, sat down to catch up on the always-snowballing mound of emails and was reminded -by friend, E, whose tree keeled over the other day- of a ex-boyfriend from college. E had written to tell me that she thinks I am an excellent writer (I'm blushing as I type and am SO flattered) and did I remember the history class in college which said boyfriend and I took together. I was not the finest history student -SO much to aggregate in my mind at once!- and went to visit my TA after a disappointing result on an exam. From his briefcase, he drew a blue book and held it before me as the shining example of a successful exam. Lo and effing behold, this was my damn boyfriend's blue book. It wasn't a great moment. In any case, E was like, "where is that guy (the TA) now, huh?!" I don't know, but I appreciate her having my back after all these years. She always has.

I then asked her if she remembered that during this very same history class, the boyfriend got a Code Red sinus infection because he refused to blow his nose. Because of the backlog up there in the cavities, he ended up in the local hospital. His mother had to come out. I spent Valentine's Day in that damn hospital room and knew the whole time that this relationship was DONE. Finito. Irreparable. For several weeks, I'd known the end was nigh but we'd been together a long time, and I was vexed. Then he ends up in the hospital, and I couldn't very well break up with him while he was pale and wan in a flimsy gown. Then V-Day came, and I couldn't very well do it then either. And then he gave me a gift his mother had bought, and she was in the room, and I am still cringing to this day.

After he was released, we broke up. And that was in 1997. Funny how time flies. I'm in fuzzy socks, PJ pants, and a Turkey Trot shirt right now. My house looks like hoarders live here even though I just cleaned yesterday. Before the boys left, I helped each of them blow his nose, and then did my little roto-rooter trick with a twisted Kleenex just to make sure things were extra clear. Ain't life something!