The vexation that is finding a good haircut, cherry jam

This morning, I had a haircut appointment with a new stylist. In my opinion, finding a good hairstylist is as hard, perhaps more so, as discovering a great bra or feeling you look terrific in your bathing suit. I am ever-hopeful of meeting the next Eddie, my genius, preposterously affable hair-cutter in Boston; twice since we moved, I've scheduled appointments with Eddie during visits back. That's how seriously thankful I am for a good do. In D.C., I've hobbled grudgingly from one maybe-we-can-date kinda stylist to the next. There was the tall, thin, Latin Flamenco-type in Virginia; the Scottish gal in Georgetown who I liked quite a bit but who always ran at least an hour behind, and really I just don't have that amount of free time and if I did I wouldn't want to spend it in a salon foyer suffering from a slight air of pretension; most recently I've entrusted my locks to the skilled but surly Vietnamese woman in Bethesda. She is one of those negative black holes that you just want to tear yourself away from lest you get Dementored by her gloom. But on the flip side, she could cut my hair, though I always hated it on the first day which is kind of de rigueur with many trims.

Whatever is a girl to do?!

Today I ventured to M Studio in Bethesda for an appointment with Michael. One of my dear friends, L, who always looks gorgeous, sees him, and really, the promise of any sort of copy of her hair was enough for me. People, it was a delight, and I left feeling updated and chic. Also, I laughed a lot, bought some products, was then inspired to come home and throw out all of my decades-old products that I never did know how to use, and I look forward to a return. Sayonara, surly lady. Welcome to my life, M!

This is epic. I won't have to count the years until my next visit to Eddie.

After my return, I flitted about my kitchen, stroking my smooth hair and working on the sour cherry jam. I did add the black pepper and a bit of super-aged Balsamic, and this is a complete gem of a jam. I will post the recipe for you soon! This would be killer on some goat cheese or Brie, a bagel smeared with cream cheese, atop a cheesecake (catch the underlying theme here?).... Mamma mia!

sour cherry, black pepper and aged Balsamic jam

Then a walk with Percy because I needed some bacon to make the black beans the kids have been wanting and Wagshal's sells this great Amish bacon that cannot be beat. On said walk, I leaned over to scoop poop and my enormous, jute, "summer bag" slipped off my shoulder and onto a rogue bit of poop. Disgusting but it did not deflate me!

We got back home to start the beans, then to pick-up to get the boys, a random "field trip" to Target, success at Target, home to make the rice. I watched Jack swoon over his rice and beans and died a little bit when he said, "Mom, you are a better cook than a professional one." I had a glass of rosé, am trying to be zen about the ocean of markers and "confetti" (cut up paper for no reason at all) all over my floor, and am about to embark on bath- and bed-time. Whew!

 

Richly hued Monday

Despite the shroud of gray accompanied by intermittent bursts of rainfall outside , my home inside is a richly hued one. It is quiet and still, with only the hum of the oven whispering solemnly in the background. On occasion, Percy might snore or Nutmeg adjust nap position, but otherwise, we are a mute, peaceful bunch making our way through a tired Monday. I am grateful for this, as I am for the happy array of farmers market flowers on my table -bright and white snapdragons, stalks of wild mint, ever-elegant hydrangeas, a few stems of bee balm from my own yard, some graceful white blooms whose name I can't remember- and for the beautiful bounty of produce with which I've been working all morn.

I bought a flat of sour cherries yesterday because one never knows how many weeks they'll make an appearance in the farmers stalls; it's never for long. I sometimes wish I were ambidextrous because then I could face them armed with a cherry pitter in each hand, perhaps making my way through the pitting process a bit more quickly. Alas, I am not, and anyway, it's such a lovely, meditative act when you can sit and just do it at a pace that suits you in those moments. And to think of the jam, pies, cheesecake topping and all else that will literally be the fruit of my labor.

sour cherries

A tart sounded divine for tonight's meatless meal, and so I began by making and chilling a crust and then slow-roasting some tomatoes in a low oven.

slow-roasted tomatoes

Meanwhile I ran to the market and while there picked up some farmers cheese. Chives, basil, parsley, an eggy blend, some of the farmers cheese and pecorino...I can't wait to eat this and bring some to the grands later today. I was absolutely smitten by the colorific mix of the herbs atop the tomatoes so paused mid-cheese to snap these.

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chive, basil, parsley tango atop tomatoes

 

Hosting a Star Wars party for a 7-year-old

Star Wars is definitely enjoying a comeback right now; the entire franchise is all the rage with young boys, at least if my sons and my oldest's entire 1st grade are any indicator. So when Jack said he wanted a Star Wars birthday party, I knew it wouldn't be difficult, as it was for his police party two years ago, to find age-appropriate supplies. If you want to review what we did for that party, click here. I started with the invites which I usually make myself by having Tom photo-shop one of the boys' heads on a figure that represents the theme of the party (last year, Jack's head on Batman's body, for example). I posted this earlier, but here is this year's invite: Death Star, Luke, the Episode and Intro bit (which Jack wrote; hilarious)...

Star Wars invite for Jack

Per the usual we planned to host the party at home (Jack loves it, and frankly we prefer it) so I told J the group had to be small, and then I started to look for a primary Star Wars activity in which no one would be bored or get injured. Answer: a light saber battle in the backyard. But, plastic light sabers are hard, and there was no way I was going to put Oliver and a gang of seven-year-olds outside with long, hard plastic sticks. I recalled seeing somewhere online that a like-minded Mom had used swim noodles to make a safe saber so I picked some up while we were in NC a few weeks back (one of those items that's cheaper and easier to find NOT in DC; each was $1.99 or something at the Wilmington Harris Teeter). I ordered some Scotch aluminum foil tape (about $3.25) from amazon as well as a roll of black duck tape (more like $6), cut the noodles in half, and T and I pulled up a picture of all the main Star Wars characters light saber hilts on line and rolled out individualized ones in about twenty minutes. These were enormously popular today!

light sabers with personalized hilts (Obi Wan, Qui Gon Jin, Luke, etc)

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If your child then insists he have a double-sided saber, as does Darth Maul, Duck Tape two of the noodles back together.

a double-sided saber

As for decorations, I rarely buy them anymore because we have fun making them. This year, Jack did them all, and I think they're great. Good way to get him involved in the party planning process!

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Darth Maul and Luke's Rover

I've never been huge on giving out a ginormous favor bag at the end of a party, but a few cool items related to the party theme can be fun! (Those Wonder Woman mini-piñatas from Oliver's party still crack me up!) So in addition to each kid keeping his light saber, I bought a selection of DK Readers, each about some different element of Star Wars, and, because Jack's actual birthday is July 4th and boys seem to love things that explode, some Pop-Its.

Star Wars birthday favors

And then the cake- I always have such a blast designing the grand finale. I bought the toppers via amazon and was happy with them though only Darth Vader's saber lit up when both were supposed to. Boo (especially for $10). But Jack loves them, so c'est la vie. These light saber cupcake picks (also amazon, $6) were a huge hit and made a fantastic, spirited addition to Darth, Luke and the glitter sugar. I decided on a tiered cake to suggest a fight on a mighty precipice and used 9", 8" and 6" pans (two layers of strawberry, one of chocolate). I already had the red sprinkle sugar and green sanding sugar but was psyched to find these cool, black sugar chips (like irregular confetti; $3.50) at Sur La Table last week (where I headed to find the 6" pan). It was perfect! I loved how Jack set up his SW action figures around the cake as well as this light saber he made from clay yesterday.

Star Wars birthday cake

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Lastly, I decided to treat the boys, because they LOVE to dress up, to a Jedi costume each. I got these from the Rubies storefront on amazon. You can see Jack's above in the double-saber pic. Here is Ol's which is slightly different. They're not terribly well-made, and the fabric is extremely chintzy but the boys are wild for them, and both held up really well today, battles and all!

another Jedi costume

All in all, a great party!