I cannot even tell you how incredibly good coconut milk, sweetened condensed milk, milk, and Cognac all stirred together over a mild heat are. You just close your eyes, lick your lips and savor every bit. And then, that goes ON a six-egg, slightly-vanilla cake. Then, you whip cream, cinnamon and puréed mango together and spread atop all that insane yumminess, and then, for good measure, you put more puréed mango.  And then you wait a day while it all melds together even more. Aah- I cannot wait!!!!!!!!!!!